The other day Josh and I were talking about how we would really like to reach other people groups here. While Josh was visiting some of our church members he found some people in our neighborhood who had just a built a large house. While they were talking they invited Josh to a wedding that would take place in a few days at that house.
I was excited because now we had a chance to take the first steps toward being their friends. They told us to come about seven or eight o’clock at night, so we went about seven thirty. (The wedding began at 6:30pm.) We could hear the music from our house. Needless to say, the music was extremely loud, as is the custom here.
We walked down the street holding our umbrella since it was sprinkling. When we arrived there were about sixty or seventy people sitting in chairs beneath tarps. To the left was a stage and some girls were dancing to the music. Thankfully, Josh didn’t see them and they soon left the stage. They were dressed unusually immodest for this people group. Normally these people are very particular about having their thighs covered and many cover their heads, arms, and even their feet. (I am not speaking of the Papuans.)
Some friendly ladies dressed in lacey, sequined clothing showed us to the food and we enjoyed some delicious Indonesian cooking. It reminded us so much of living on the island of Java. We sat down and a man was calling out names, perhaps giving gifts away.
The bride and groom sat on the front porch of the house which was extravagantly decorated. We, along with other guests, shook their hands and greeted the rest of the party surrounding the couple.
A few minutes later, about five transvestites pranced in. I thought I was going to lose my food. For some reason the Indonesians love to see men dressed up as women. There was giggling as they walked in. I thought they were just there to greet the bride and groom, but evidently they were there for an act.
We didn’t want to be rude but we took that as our cue to leave. As one of them got on stage the crowd cheered and clapped with excitement. The music was turned up louder. We turned around and shook the men’s hands that were sitting behind us, thanked them, and left.
As soon as we stepped out from under the tent I felt very oppressed. I cannot explain the feeling that came over me, but I cried out “God, help!” I wanted to quote Scripture but not one verse came to my mind, and we are learning new verses every week!
Suddenly, I started crying. Josh wasn’t sure what was going on. I wasn’t sure either and didn’t remember those few moments until the next morning. Spiritual oppression is real and we are not immune to it. Thankfully, though, we have the Word of God and the blood of Jesus as our weapons against it.
I later found out that it is possible that the family of the bride or groom visited a witchdoctor to “bless” the wedding ceremony. They usually have little plates with offerings of food and flowers at the wedding.
Do pray that God would open the door so we can reach these people.